"Aware of the suffering caused by un-mindful speech and the inability to listen to others, I am committed to cultivating loving speech and deep listening in order to bring joy and happiness to others and relieve others of their suffering.
Knowing that words can create happiness or suffering, I am determined to speak truthfully, with words that inspire self-confidence, joy, and hope. I will not spread news that I do not know to be certain and will not criticize or condemn things of which I am not sure .... I am determined to make all efforts to reconcile and resolve all conflicts, however small.
- from The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching,
Chapter Twelve, Right Speech by Thich Nhat Hanh
THE RIVER OF GRASS UU COVENANT OF RIGHT RELATIONS
We, the members and staff of River of Grass Unitarian Universalist Congregation, agree to strive to be in relationship with each other and with the larger community in ways that build a safe, healthy, nurturing environment and strengthen our common bonds. To that end, we are committed to putting forth our best efforts to live out the ideals expressed in this, our covenant of right relations.
WELCOMING AND HOSPITALITY
We practice hospitality and inclusion, welcoming all those who enter and showing a
genuine interest in each other. We honor and respect the differing cultural perspectives of others. We are all stewards of this sacred space.
LISTENING AND SPEAKING
We listen with respect and attention, without assumptions. We speak and respond thoughtfully and honestly, respecting diversity of opinions.
CONFLICT AND RECONCILIATION
We acknowledge our mistakes and shortcomings and are willing to forgive ourselves and others. We make every effort to settle differences openly, directly, and with compassion. We strive patiently to build trust in all our relationships, focusing on the issue, not the person.
CELEBRATION, SUPPORT, AND SERVICE
We support each other in times of joy and need. We serve with generosity and good humor. We recognize and acknowledge the service of others.